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"We ended up having sex, and it was awesome," says Allie, who notes that the bride never found out nor did Allie's boyfriend at the time.
So if "straight" women are into lesbian sex, how are they not lesbians? Diamond, who is a lesbian, admits that in the early stages of her study, she was waiting for the "wiggling" women to come out eventually one way or the other.
Many ads toss out invites for girly activities like mani-pedis and brunch.
"I want to hang out and go shopping and be friends outside of sex," explains a 24-year-old woman from Evanston, Illinois, in her Craigslist callout.
After rocking out at Britney's live show, she's also hoping she and her new BFF will get in bed and go down on each other.
The post continues: "I left out the part about not being able to keep our hands off each other when we're alone, giving each other hot and steamy kisses, and seeing what we taste like."Wait, ?
These hetero flexible women say they want long-term romantic relationships with men but are consistently drawn to women purely for sex, whether a girlfriends-with-benefits scenario or a Sapphic sidepiece hidden from their boyfriend or husband."It's a huge phenomenon," says Chelsea Reynolds, who researches gender and sexuality in mass media as a doctoral student at the University of Minnesota School of Journalism and Communication.
Based on that data, she estimates that, over the course of a year, there are hundreds of thousands of ads posted online from women who "self-identify as straight, who want relationships with guys, but also enjoy a woman's body and affection here and there."When straight girls shop on the Web for gay sex, Reynolds found that they maintain their "stereotypically heterosexual" (read: basic bitch) identities.How to seduce a straight woman is the most common question faced by lesbians who fall in love and want to build a relationship with a straight woman.The desire to seduce a straight woman should come natural and done in a more subtle way.Many are clear in their online ads that they're looking for "femme, not butch" women, because it's precisely the feminine "lipstick" ladies who offer them a sexual break from the men in their lives."Women are so soft and captivating," gushes Ruby, a 31-year-old fashion sales coordinator who lives with her boyfriend in New York but has a long-standing lust for women that she's acted on in the past."They're like gummy candy in my mouth." Or as one Dallas woman recently put it on Craigslist: "Hey, ladies, I'm 36 and married to a douche.