16 dating 13
No matter how intellecutally secure and emotionally stable she may act, she can't be ready yet. And you can and should support her and let her know that someone in this big old world loves her.
If not that, you can be her friend, her brother, even her boyfriend, but not her LOVER.
That's about it L4 I Think That if you two love each other then forget the age I've gone out with younger gus and older it doesn't matter about age her parents should be willing to look past the age and see that you really love her with your heart !
Age does matter when you're 13 and he's 16 or when one is a minor and the other one is not. She is too young to be dating and you are too old to be trying date her.
Of course, i am more or less afraid of what her parents will think about it. I would wait until she's 14 and then let her get her parent's permission.
My first thought is they may not like the whole idea, but maybe if we explain all this to them they wont have a problem. To most people it would seem that you are taking advantage of this young girl.
Yes I have just turned 16, and yes lot of guys that age arent in it for love, but i can say that i am. However, I can't understand how you can think you are dating if her parents are not on board with this.
I am not going to say.i dont want sex, for any guy would like that, but i know the limits. We like to play around and stuff like that but at the same time we can still be serious and have normal conversations and what not without it getting "silly". A 13 yr old should definitely not be dating without her parents knowledge.
I Think That if you two love each other then forget the age ive gone out with younger gus and older it doesnt matter about age her parents should be willing to look past the age and see that you really love her with your heart !Almost all of my guy friends are older than me and all of my boyfriends have been older.THe parents in the situation, may not like it so much.When one is in their adolescence they are more often than not more in love with the concept of being in love then actually in love with someone.Kids in their adolescence don't have the maturity and experience to truly judge whether they are really in love or not. Age doesn't matter when both are adults, but it certainly does matter when one or both are minors.